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I Am Empowered!!!Yes I Am.

Empowerment is buzz word. Isn’t it? But mostly it reaches our organ of corti as…Women Empowerment!!!!

I have never heard MEN EMPOWERMENT which obviously implies they are empowered enough already. My question is what is it that makes us think so? What is it that hinders women from attaining it? Or is it right to say that women only need to be empowered? What if we refer to it as Human Empowerment? Wouldn’t that be great; applying equally to all the creations of Nature, whether it’s Man, woman, or the other gender!

We mostly assume that we are empowered by financial status which is true to a greater extent, but what about the minds which badly need amendments; the Eyes which need to see beyond the usual black and white; the ears which need to learn to chose melody from noise; the Heart that not only needs to stay in rhythm but pump compassion with every beat; the hands which need to work more for spreading light, not to pick props to fight; and above all the mighty tongue which needs to learn when to make a move, and when it should take a pause!
Don’t you think we need to work on ourself in the time laboratory of real life; We need to deeply analyse, improve, and then express to actually known as ’empowered’.

I researched on my ‘own’database (in my mind), and gladly I consider myself empowered. I came across times,

  • When I spoke my mind clearly without feeling guilty, and intelligently without hurting the sentiments of others.
  • When I bore criticism without feeling offensive, and picked the positivity, not letting the negativity enslave me at any cost.
  • When I understood that the person in front is also a human, therefore has limited cranial capacity like everyone else.  I allowed him/her some mistakes.it’s okay. 
  • When Inspite of  dreaming big, I never forgot the reality of what I presently am, and where I come from? I knew my calibre, and my limits very well. I chose not to let anything affect my optimistic state of mind. 
  • When  wishing good for everyone, I also knew that I am not a Masih! All I did was just be my gentlest, sweetest, and kindest version possible,(but yeah, always keeping in mind the terms and conditions which do apply at places).
  • When I showed courage to take full responsibility for my actions, and their outcomes. Lacking the habit of blaming others, that way, I focussed more on solutions rather than discussing the problem time and again.
  • When life showered it’s blessings, I never let the success rode my head. I tried to be humble, knowing the fact, nothing is permanent here.
  • When knowing what I want; or what I deserve; I thanked God for giving atleast what I have? 

Everyone needs loving people in life but I know that love can’t be forced ; only ticket to people’s heart is by earning it through right actions. And , You know what I have found the best trick to feel loved: EXPRESS MOST, EXPECT LEAST.

What we need is to identify the ‘Power’ that we have within…use it…not just live with it….

Remember, We are already E-M-P-O-W-E-R-E-D.

Just Realize it.👍

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Happy Diwali 

Day 7: Seven Days Seven B&W Photos Challenge

I’m challenged by Miriam Hurdle at The Shower of Blessings to do the Seven Days Seven B&W Photos Challenge. This challenge is to post seven black and white photos, no people, no explanation, of everyday life for seven consecutive days.  

Day#7

Thanks 

Mann💓

Day 6: Seven Days Seven B&W Photos Challenge

I’m challenged by Miriam Hurdle at The Shower of Blessings to do the Seven Days Seven B&W Photos Challenge. This challenge is to post seven black and white photos, no people, no explanation, of everyday life for seven consecutive days.  

Day#6


Thanks.

Mann 💓

And did we visit the link ? 👉  https://www.indiblogger.in/iba/2017/entry/97803

Its my nomination for Indian Bloggers Award.😊😊

Day 5: Seven Days Seven B&W Photos Challenge

I’m challenged by Miriam Hurdle at The Shower of Blessings to do the Seven Days Seven B&W Photos Challenge. This challenge is to post seven black and white photos, no people, no explanation, of everyday life for seven consecutive days.  

Day#5


Thanks.

Mann 💓

Please visit my nomination page, AND DO leave your love for AFTERGLOW in the form of comment.👇

https://www.indiblogger.in/iba/2017/entry/97803

Day 4: Seven Days Seven B &W Photos Challenge

I’m challenged by Miriam Hurdle at The Shower of Blessings to do the Seven Days Seven B&W Photos Challenge. This challenge is to post seven black and white photos, no people, no explanation, of everyday life for seven consecutive days.  

Day#4

Isn’t Celebration An Exhibition Of Our Possessions?

Few days back my daughter turned Five. She wanted to celebrate it huge, and I…I wanted it to be different! 

Here, I admit, I like to try humanly yet unusual things, and absolutely love to get credit for my efforts…like most of you.😊

So after a lot of brainstorming, I stopped at one thought…about the very ‘in’ thing these days…i.e. Finding and visiting the nearest orphanage, and have a unique birthday celebration with the less fortunate children. This was obviously going to be different, but somehow, it didn’t get approval from the rational mind of mine.

It did sound like very humane at first to gift a few joyful moments to those kids, but at the same time, it felt really inhumane to me. 

How?

Celebrating your happiness with them!

Doesn’t it sound less like making them happy, and more like making them realize how unfortunate they are? Don’t you think somewhere they are going to envy the good fate of kids who have parents to take care of them, and love them unconditionally? Wouldn’t it be merciless on our part to knowingly press their most painful nerve? Doesn’t matter how nice we be to them, it is going to last a short while. We are going to come back with a good feeling of charity, but what we would be leaving behind… that, disturbs my mind… who is going to make up for the painful reminder of inadequacy, of deficiency? Who is going to fill the void that is there in their life…permanently? 

So obviously the idea died at the very place it took birth. I don’t know if I did right or wrong, but I know one thing, I won’t atleast go there for celebrating ‘my happiness’, that I can do in other countless possible ways. 

If ever I’ll go to them,  It will be ‘for’ them 

or… 

I won’t go at all…

Mann💓

PS. The post is based on personal opinion of the author. It in no way is meant to offend anyone’s feelings.
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Day 3: Seven Days Seven B&W Photos Challenge

I’m challenged by Miriam Hurdle at The Shower of Blessings to do the Seven Days Seven B&W Photos Challenge. This challenge is to post seven black and white photos, no people, no explanation, of everyday life for seven consecutive days.  
Day #3


Mann💓

Day 2: Seven Days Seven B&W Photos Challenge.

I’m challenged by Miriam Hurdle at The Shower of Blessings to do the Seven Days Seven B&W Photos Challenge. This challenge is to post seven black and white photos, no people, no explanation, of everyday life for seven consecutive days.  
Day #2

Seven Days Seven B&W Photos Challenge

​I normally don’t do this, but as they anything for friends. So here Miriam, I am completing day one of your challenge😊.

I’m challenged by Miriam Hurdle at The Shower of Blessings to do the Seven Days Seven B&W Photos Challenge. This challenge is to post seven black and white photos, no people, no explanation, of everyday life for seven consecutive days.  

Day #1